Remember the credit card malarkey in the 90 s ?, which ended with many in financial hardship, debt etc ? Well it never bothered me, just used to manage my finances out of my low wages,
and still saved enough to buy some lovely lamda pro stax headphones lol. Others prefer socialising more and thats fine, all good for the economy. And then there are folk, well, you could hand em
a zillion pound a wk and they would spend a zillion and one. Take my mother in law, had 3 kids and has barely done a days work in her life, just lived on benefits lol. But because she was careful
with her dosh.... NO DRINKING, NO SMOKING NO DRUGs ... she manages fine, and poverty s never crossed her path. Saved enough for a 6 wk tour of USA for her 65th birthday as well lol.
I understand everybody's circumstances are different, for example you may have a great job, made redundant and then your world comes crashing down. But I m sure there's been many who
over the years have balanced there outgoings with incomings poorly. I m not some Tory toff type myself either, just living in London on around 23 k a year ( no housing outlays tbf ) but have to pay for everything else. To finish I do respect the good heartedness of folk who reach out and want to help poorer people than themselves, its just that its more complex than some make out