Quite so.
The problem seems to come when the opposing viewpoints start to get personal.
I's fine to say "I like the LP12*, it suits my needs perfectly well" and also fine to say "I don't like the LP12, it isn't for me" (preferably with some sort of explanation so that people know why you hold that particular view). There is, after all, no law that says you have to like the LP12*.
What we see, more often, is "I love the LP12, and anybody who doesn't is deaf" or "I loathe the LP12, and anybody who owns one is an idiot".
Some people just don't seem to see why the former options are preferable to the latter ones.
*insert hifi product of choice here
Sue, what about those people who are seduced into buying something because they are lead to believe that it is what they want?
They then realise, after considerable financial outlay, it wasn't what they wanted, at all, but say it was just part of their audio journey
Forget the item, which I do not intend to mention again(!), but how many times do you see someone say I bought something, it was very expensive, and I got shut of it.
The honesty of Arkless is rare in my reading of threads which causes confusion to a newbie like me.
The funniest things of all are those on classified extolling the virtues of something they are now selling 6 months later!
A poster on here and someone who has worked in the hifi industry actually said to me had I learnt anything on here which was not shrouded in confusion.
I will await the avalanche of posts, but I have considered a certain make of speaker for some time ( I hope spacey isn't reading this! ) and I really want them but I won't buy them until I am absolutely certain and I have heard them in a domestic setting and as they are rather big and cooky has no doubt persuaded everyone to pretend they're not in when I come round this is proving problematical.
More than one person has said buy s/h and move them on if you don't like them. Is it so terrible to want to buy once and buy well?
Oh the fun of the fair