Perhaps, but married to a nasty thug, who is determined to hold on to power by whatever means necessary, including butchering large numbers of his own people. Remember that it all started with peaceful protests for change as part of the "Arab Spring", which protests were met with extreme violence. This is of course largely tribal - the Assads are Alawites, a minority community in Syria, but determined to hang on to power in the face of the numerically larger Sunnis. It echoes Saddam, a Sunni in a majority Shia country, equally determined to hang on to power by whatever means necessary.
But it didn't all start with peaceful protests, tones. It is a regime change war that was planned beforehand. Jihadists were primed, armed and in position, and when the uprising started they moved, hijacking the various protests, shooting dead several of Assad's police. This does not mean that Assad isn't a brutal bastard, he is, and so are his police, who did kill protestors, but the whole thing became a brutal war that has cost the lives of so many because the countries I named above armed and trained Wahhabist Jihadists, and facilitated the import into Syria of tens of thousands of them, armed to the teeth, and they continue to do so.
It was meant to be over fast, like it went in Libya, but Assad has the support of the majority of his people, and his 70% Sunni army. He called for help and it came. First Iraqi Shias, then the Iranians, then Hezbollah and then Russia.
I have explained this many times on here, that this is what happened, a planned regime change war, yet you and many like you choose to ignore this. Rather you and others constantly post links to disingenuous regime change propaganda media outlets like the BBC, CNN, the New York Times, the Guardian etc, as Rupert Murdoch, Lord Jacob Rothschild, ex CIA director James Woolesy and Dick Cheney's company: Genie Energy illegally plunders all of the Syrian oil in the Golan Heights.
Do you think Assad should step aside and let the secular country of Syria become another Islamofascist hellhole just because the human filth that planned this war want him to? What will happen to Syria's 2.3 million Christians? What of all the other non-Sunni Muslim people, should they be left to fend for themselves against ISIS and Al Nusra?
Why do people like you regurgitate the regime change media's lies? Why do you blame the victim? Why do you side with the prosecutors of this vile regime change war designed to cripple another of Israel's perceived enemies?
I wish I knew!