Well, thanks to all who recommended a rewire for the RB300. I spend Friday night hunched over my workbench, fitting the Incognito kit (with Michell tags, as I much prefer them). And it really does make things better - that flat tonal greyness has gone, and there's a richer, more warmly detailed and atmospheric sound, but without sacrificing any of the taut dynamism and control. It also dropped the noise floor noticeably - removing a lot of what I assume was RF hiss.
No, the SL1210/RB300/OC9 still isn't beating the LP12/Ittok/AT33, but it's very much closer - and we'll see how it does when I get around to fitting the Vellman-based power supply that I built on Sunday (I just have to finalise my plans for placing the board & its big cap, and then re-routing the internal wiring in order to retain the use of the rotary power switch).
I also played around with a couple of thin profile (about 3mm) nitrile O-rings, above and below the OL arm plate, between it and the arm tube, and bolt. Doing much the same thing as the Michell decoupling kit for the Orbe, and Rega's new 3-point mount, I guess, by adding a little bit of compliant decoupling, while avoiding the problems of leaving the bolt a bit loose.
Anyway, I think it sounded better - more open, less liable to confusion on complex passages, and a bit more detail. Anyway, I shall continue listening over the week, and then remove them and see how I feel about it. It's easy to remove the arm now, as I finally took the plunge and attacked the rubber base with a craft knife, and opened the arm mounting hole up all the way through.