@Richard Lines ,
Your comment about being swayed in the 2014 referendum by the threat that an independent Scotland would be evicted from the EU and not able to easily re-enter has been bothering me. I remember at the time, this was a Big Deal, with some Spanish heid-honcho in the EU saying we would not get back in or would need to join the back of a long queue of other less-developed nations applying for membership.
At the time I just thought this was nonsense. Not based on any political analysis but just a pragmatic view of real politik. The idea that the EU would not welcome and expedite membership from a well-resourced, energy-rich, highly developed, already EU compliant country was clearly pish. It would have been a great "advert" and PR-win for the EU to recruit us into their expanded union.
Sometimes it's wise to just ask yourself; "does this sound likely, or real? Does it match my lived experience?
Likewise the terror of a "hard border" between Scotland and England. This was when both Scotland & England were in the EU. "Better Together" told us a new border would halt trade, make our cousins "foreigners" ( "yuk!...foreigners!") and be simply impossible to manage. Even though examples existed all over Europe of neighbouring, sovereign countries with seamless, porous borders and effortless trade.
I knew this was shite. Both EU countries, eager to trade and avoid unnecessary disruption, would simply have sorted out an arrangement that worked in their mutual interests*. That's just the way things are. How people are. How we get stuff done.
You have to keep it real when listening to the fear-mongers. Same this time.
* (More tricky now to be fair, if we wished to re-join the EU, because people like "Montesque" upthread, have shat in their own bed. Maybe we would just divert some trade around England initially, the way Eire has done, if England still wished to remain in Splendid Isolation. When Estonia became independent it lost 100% of it's trade (with Russia). Overnight. And it still survived. People living there now can hardly remember how they sorted it all out but they did. We would have nowhere near that level of disruption. And overcoming obstacles is fun, empowering, skill-making, growth-making, positive stuff when you have the tools. An iScotland would have the tools in abundance)