Been running a Jotul F250 3-9kw for 13s year that we originally bought second hand. Still on original glass (cleaned with wood ash and old cloth), rope seals replaced, swept once a year, and never a had problem.
We now only burn low moisture kiln dried ash and oak - having been through most other variants of softwood, seasoned hardwood, joiners offcuts, heatlogs, smokeless coal - finding it to be best blend of cost vs heat vs cleanliness and low ash.
My view is that a slow burn is a good burn. I do leave it in all night when its really cold and it does keep downstairs tickover warm. Once stove is warm, its simple to stack it full, damp it right down, and let the logs effectively turn to charcoal, at which point they really start to glow crank out the heat. This keeps glass clean too.
I regulate the heat output by changing fuel levels laoded within rather than opening top or bottom vents, which i mainly use for lighting or when it has died down too much. Keeping good bed of warm ash is key.
It's a doddle to light, and with the right wood, a joy to run.