Jim Smith, author of Get Better Sound, is not a fan of equilateral triangle loudspeaker positioning. He recommends that the distance between the speakers should be approx 83% of the distance from the speaker to the listening position, in order to achieve optimal "coupling" between the speakers at lower midrange frequencies. His book goes into a lot more detail but he gives an overview in this video:
I purchased his book not long after its release but didn't actually follow his methodology as I didn't have the heart to ask my dad to turn my floor into a huge chessboard with strips of tape!
Even though I agree that the triangle should be equilateral or isosceles with with the listener slightly farther I don't see how distancing yourself a bit more from the speakers than they are from each other is required to
"achieve optimal "coupling" between the speakers at lower midrange frequencies".
You've measured your speakers in the room hundreds of times and know as well as I do that optimal response has nothing to do with the distance to the speakers but with relative positions.
Basic rules get the most out of the speakers (with the caveat that getting the most out of the speakers might not produce the most enjoyable results to some people):
a) set the speakers and listener symmetrically in the room forming an equilateral triangle or isosceles (but with the listener only slightly farther)
b) keep the speakers away from corners (unless they're one of the few designs meant to go in corners, but then they both should go in the corner as per 'a)')
c) use the short wall setup
d) don't sit in the middle of the room or with the back of the chair/sofa against a wall
e) determine the best speaker and listener position by using a microphone
f) find out the optimal listening axis by measuring or looking the speaker's directivity (horizontal and vertical response) measurements
g) place the speakers against the back wall only if they have environmental controls or you are able to EQ (unless they're one of the few designs meant to go against the back wall, and as per 'a)')
h) add soft to floor and hard (diffusing) funishings to back and side walls in early reflection zones