I'm sure that's the same for a lot us, me included.
If I want to see opinions on a product now I go to Google and type "Flashback (or whatever you want to search for) forum" to see what people think. It's still not guaranteed to give you the best sound for your money, but it's better than reviews IMO (unless you know a reviewer you can trust).
I also use Chord Chrysalis but you can only buy them second hand now. I started using Chrysalis because it's what Naim used to recommend when using non-Naim equipment (RCA) with Naims Din plugs. I tried cables higher up the Chord range but thought they just added affects or changed the tone. To my ears they sounded worse (less honest). I then tried Flashback and thought they were similar to Chrysalis, so I'm happy to use either now.