George J
Herefordshire member
I have read the greater part of this thread as free speech is in my view important.
What strikes me is how wretched a phenomenon social media often seems to be. I have zero interest in Twitter and Facebook, or anything else of the sort.
I look in here, but mostly have very little to add. I am not interested in pushing my own views or philosophical outlook. I suppose that I am too stoical to think I could change anything for the better, outside my own attitudes to people and life. On the whole, I have concluded that the human race is not all that nice, and the stars are people personally known to me rather than famous or powerful people.
On the issue of being offended, and giving offence, intentional or not, I have worked out that if I give unintentional offence, it works well to apologise, and alter my way of speaking or writing in future. But the better thing is that taking offence is voluntary. Nobody has to take offence if they specifically choose not to. If someone says something unintentionally offensive, only if they are a good friend would I point out that some people might be offended by it. If they are being deliberately offensive, or in other words "are" an offensive person, the best way to steal their thunder is by ignoring their offensiveness. They have no way to go once you blunt their weapon.
I am sure that I have no idea of the branches of feminism, or the subtleties of gender politics. It brings wonderment to me how hot under the collar some people get about it.
"Live and let live," is the way I deal with it.
Best wishes from George
What strikes me is how wretched a phenomenon social media often seems to be. I have zero interest in Twitter and Facebook, or anything else of the sort.
I look in here, but mostly have very little to add. I am not interested in pushing my own views or philosophical outlook. I suppose that I am too stoical to think I could change anything for the better, outside my own attitudes to people and life. On the whole, I have concluded that the human race is not all that nice, and the stars are people personally known to me rather than famous or powerful people.
On the issue of being offended, and giving offence, intentional or not, I have worked out that if I give unintentional offence, it works well to apologise, and alter my way of speaking or writing in future. But the better thing is that taking offence is voluntary. Nobody has to take offence if they specifically choose not to. If someone says something unintentionally offensive, only if they are a good friend would I point out that some people might be offended by it. If they are being deliberately offensive, or in other words "are" an offensive person, the best way to steal their thunder is by ignoring their offensiveness. They have no way to go once you blunt their weapon.
I am sure that I have no idea of the branches of feminism, or the subtleties of gender politics. It brings wonderment to me how hot under the collar some people get about it.
"Live and let live," is the way I deal with it.
Best wishes from George