I don't have a fight with you on the present Tory lot.
In fairness, the majority of Westminster (75-80%?), including the PM, most of the cabinet, the majority of Tory MPs, almost all Labour MPs and all of the others are pro-EU. The unelected non-minister head of Brexit, Olly Robbins, has EU written through his centre like a stick of Brighton Rock. All of Whitehall, which has anyway been purged of pretty much anything but young, inherently eunatic civil servants and is anyway virtually an organ of the EC, is virulently pro-EU and anti-Brexit. The BoE, and the vast majority of the establishment, by which I mean the HoL and numbers of retired but well-connected and quietly very influential ex-PMs (Blair, Major), diplomats, bankers and industrialists are anti-Brexit. Half of the news media is anti-Brexit, and the other half are gradually being wittled away. Even the loathed DM has undergone a pro-EU coup with the appointment of Geordie Grieg. There are very few of these 'right-wing neo-cons' that you speak of, and of those who want to leave there are undoubtedly manifold reasons for wanting to do so, some of which no doubt revolve closely around self-interest, others which are principled and probably wrong, and others which are principled and probably right.
I think that this country is in the final stages of a highly organised, deep and broad establishment coup against the principles of democratic sovereignty. Democracy is being quietly crucified by the élite. I find it very disconcerting that I am more aligned with Jeremy Corbyn, with whom I am ideologically and instinctively completely at odds, than I am with my own political hinterland, on the matter of the EU.