My present digital source is a CD player and a Mac Mini - the latter dedicated to music replay by USB into a Meridian based system ( 808 v6 / DSP 7200SE's). The Mac Mini has music that has been ripped from my CD's and play back is by Amarra and also Tidal Hifi for streaming. Control of the Mac is mainly by 'screen sharing' on a laptop but also by the Remote Ap. It presently works very well.
I do wonder if there are gains to be had from replacing the Mac Mini with a dedicated server such as Melco or Aurender. I read about "noise" that is created by using a computer such as the Mac and it's "inevitable effect on sq". At the end of the day it will be auditioning a music server but am interested in the experience and views of others.
If you search for 'Melco' you'll find plenty of opinion in previous threads.
To my ears, the Melco is a worthwhile step-up from a Mac mini in terms of sound quality, but how you use it has to be factored in as well – for me these days file-based replay is a secondary source, so I get to the 'good enough' level reasonably quickly. The other factor is the total user experience,controlling Audirvana on an iPad using either their app or especially via iTunes integration is easy and familiar. Melco's UI software, so far as I'm aware, is still complete vapourware, so you're reliant on third-party control software, which IME is of variable quality with regard to bugginess, usability and/or aesthetic merit.
Having owned a Melco, I've since gone back to a Mac mini, but as stated it's very much a second source for me, for serious listening I prefer CD.
I've also in the past run more seriously optimised Mac minis (including external PSU etc), but it's hard to argue the incremental improvements always represent value for money.
These days I'm happy enough with Audirvana in hog mode or whatever they call it these days, a couple of Audioquest Jitterbugs and reasonably priced (relative term) Oyaide USB and FireWire cables.
The first generation Melco I had was better in terms of absolute sound quality, but the Mac's good enough for my needs in context. If I were to go back to using file-based systems as my primary source (highly unlikely) then I'd probably investigate some of the newer server options.
I've only heard a quite early model Aurender, wasn't much taken with it, ie. didn't think it was notably better than a Mac.
As you say, a home demo's probably the best way to find out for yourself.