4 legs is no more stable, if the force is coming from above, 3 works best, in terms of hifi, the force is always coming from above, 3, 4, 5 or 10 legs will not stabilise a force from the side, all will knock over, but again, not the point.
The force will hit at a point of contact at precisely the same time with 3 legs but not with 4, even if meticulously levelled, there will always be room for movement, not with 3, it is physically impossible when the force is coming from above, it makes no odds where the weight is distributed in the equipment (some are weighted heavily to one side due to transformers etc) with 4, the weight can tip very slightly, as long as the triangle is set out centrally, it will stabilise.
You need to think less about convenience & more about how weight & force is distributed when placing an object on a solid mass, where the object is designed to sit without being kicked, or prodded or whatever, this is all meaningless where hifi equipment is concerned. I mean, who the hell leans on a cd player or amp when playing music?? not to mention speakers or stands, it's a point being made, which has no significance when sitting listening to music.
Forget sideways force, gravity travels down, this is the only force which matters in this instance & the only arrangement that ensures all points of force arrive precisely at the same time is the tripod arrangement, there is no room for error with this arrangement.