Went on an ecellent retirement preparation course today paid from my employer. In summary, five ongoing priorities:
- Review and manage money
- Address physical heath
- Address psychological well being
- Consider social networks, relationships, etc
- Enjoy
Apparently most common concern / challenge in later life is loneliness.
Interesting because I spotted your post just as I was trying to figure out why I don't seem as bothered about money as most contributors to this thread.
Clearly, the Micawber principle is more important in retirement than absolute wealth. It works for me. Currently my retirement income from pensions easily exceeds my outgoings, although my income isn't much c.f. some here. I think I can say that because I'm finally able to see a monthly cash surplus, albeit a small one, I am better off than I've ever been financially. Also, I have never been especially concerned with accumulating wealth just for the sake of it.
Physical health? I've survived a heart attack and two strokes, so in one sense every day is a bonus. More rationally, my cardio vascular health is pretty stable apart from a long and slow deterioration in left ventricular function which may well have gone unnoticed if not for the previous events. I need to kick myself into a bit more activity and resume my former regular fitness programme. It gets harder all the time, but I'll do it. Otherwise, all things considered I reckon I'm pretty fit for 69.
Psychological well-being? I'm a natural worrier, and it has taken some time for me to stop worrying about work, even though I'm no longer doing it.. if that makes sense. That said.. I've absolutely never needed to be currently employed in order to feel validated. Idleness suits me. The trick as with most things is to find the right balance between real physical/mental challenge.. and opting for a 'couch day'. Both are correct at the appropriate time.
Social networks? I am very happy with my own company most of the time. I certainly don't get lonely in an empty house for a few hours.. or even days. That said, I do like the stimulus of social, and possibly more so intellectual interaction with others. It's part of the reason I come here. ( Still looking for the intellectuals though...
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) OTOH, I'm not one of those 'knows everybody in the village' types. I'm neither aloof nor unfriendly/insular, but I'm content to interact much less intensively and I'm really not bothered whether Mrs Jones in the next street has new curtains.
'Enjoy'. Great advice and for me possibly the hardest component. 4 years on.. although I definitely don't miss working, I'm still sort of trying to convince myself that I have earned the right to do precisely what I feel like doing most of the time. I've concluded that enjoyment of a situation is often as much of a conscious/active process, as work is. So for e.g., if I walk up the local hill, for exercise, it takes a conscious effort to stop at the top and focus on just enjoying the view, rather than the achievement of getting there. I think this may be related to 'mindfulness'.
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