I am an engineer interested in speakers and rate those that meet their objectives well. This is measured to a fair extent by how well they sell which can leave one a bit baffled at times trying to work out quite what features are responsible. I expect this lack of emotional connection with the hardware is rather different to most here and, indeed, myself in my teenage years.
This in my view is a very important point.
I like to describe my stereo as a tool, like a screwdriver, a potato-peeler or a hairdryer. I don't have any emotional attachment to any of it and I give very limited importance to looks. I want my system to reproduce the recorded signal as accurately as possible for a given budget.
I've stopped reading reviews more than a decade ago, after having gone off the beaten track, jumped on the Tripath bandwagon, owned a NOS DAC, tried two pairs of single driver speakers, lived with a chip-amp, bought a turntable, mostly thanks to our friends the 6loons...
Wasted time and money. Learned my lesson the hard way.
Magazines exist to stimulate consumption and audio magazines are no different. Most reviews are little more than "personalised" advertising, like teleshopping, and there's little in the way of technical information/education. Measurements are not compulsory.
Audiophiles have themselves to blame for this. We're lazy buggers which would rather believe the "critics" and our own ears than learn a bit about the how's and why's, about the facts. We like the mystery and the snake oil, and this only makes us an easier prey...
But magazines own their share of fault as well for (perhaps somewhat understandably - see below) not standing up to the manufacturers.
There's this rather promiscuous relationship between magazines/"critics" and manufacturers, one which involves advertising (magazines don't live off subscriptions), extended loans, accommodating prices and unwritten rules (negative feedback means adverts are gone, no access to test samples and maybe even threats of legal action). You don't bite the hand that feeds you.
I also suspect that magazines/"critics" are the ones responsible for the exponential inflation of equipment and accessories' prices and for overemphasising the importance of accessories (i.e. cables).
Forums also play a major role in stimulating consumption, but at least there is space for dialogue, for a wider array of opinions, and people will often call things out for what they really are.