OK, now my 103R is playing as intended, not bright and harsh!
I had been using a Grado on an older Souther Linear Tracking arm. Not a great set up, but it was a fun play and taught me a thing or two about linear arms. I sold the souther to buy a good cartridge and had an older (1st generation Ittok) laying around at work that became mine for a song. It came with what I thought was a stock cable. It actually was a stock cable, but one that someone had converted to BNC's at some time.
I loaded up the Ittok and even mounted the grado for a couple of days. It did not sound great, but I was waiting on my 103R, so just did not listen. The Grado was a $20 job by the way, no top end.
So 103R arrives and it sounded awfull. I revesed phase as Tony suggested, and tried everything else you guys suggested. THANK YOU for the help, It might have been ugly without it!
Anyway, what I did not do was try and compensate for any flaws (I assumed everything other than cartridge was good). So when I thought just for the hell of it of saying, "OK how about Denon making a cartridge with one channel out of phase" (I had preiously changed round cartridge cables to make sure I was not mixing Denons Positive and negative pins).
Voilla! One channel was reversed! ok, ok, no it was not the Denon, closer inspection of the tonearm cable revealed that someone had DIY'd the BNC's onto the tonearm cable and NOT done a very good job.
Wow, This is not a big deal, the cable will be fixed by days end. But what a miserable week it caused!
I did learn that a good MC cartridge out of phase sounds just like a cheap old cd player
I also had a bit of a wake up of just how the ear persieves detail. The cartridge now does not sound as detailed as I am not being given a top end emphasized picure. The detail is there and it sounds WAY better. Next time someone says their cartridge has more detail, it might be that it just has a tipped up top end.
Thanks again SO much for your concerns and input.
Adam
NOW, I am going to have some fun.