Brian
Eating fat, staying slim
In your opinion, not fact.Indeed Steve. Just to add (even though I think you've covered it):
Leave = leave the EU. Multiple options exist though leave supporters have failed to find a consensus. At the moment the most popular appears to be a very hard leave (no withdrawal deal with the EU in place, aka cliff edge in remain terms). Possibly considered as a "clean" Brexit as in a "clean break", no ties. Hard Brexit is no single market, no customs union; soft Brexit is closer to an EEA option. Other options lie in between. Those really interested can google the different forms. Bottom line - clear distinctions over the type of Brexit, leave voters unable to decide collectively what they want.
Remain = remain in the EU. No different remain options are in place that could constitute significantly different options. No concept of a "hard remain" or "soft remain". The term "hard remainer" has been dreamed up by leavers who want to portray the remain side as being as confused as they are (which is of course untrue).
The attempt to make an equivalence of terms "hard" and "soft" for both leave and remain is, to my mind, deeply odious.
What is really deeply odious is that some people believe it is acceptable to ignore the outcome of democratic referendum. A label is useful for such people.