SteveG
pfm Member
Despite the acquisition of a very fine hifi I found the lifestyle very shallow and lacking in meaning.
Get a dog.
Despite the acquisition of a very fine hifi I found the lifestyle very shallow and lacking in meaning.
Joe,
As it happens I have effectively lived both lives. Married, kids grown up, divorce. Lived 3 years abroad with plenty of money and freedom. Despite the acquisition of a very fine hifi I found the lifestyle very shallow and lacking in meaning.
I’ve known a few people who chose not to have kids and most of them have been very “self-focussed” and not in a good way.
Why is choosing not to have children a bad thing, Colin, other than they have chosen a lifestyle different from yours?
I think that speaks more about the kind of people you've mixed with. I've never found my lifestyle shallow or lacking in meaning. But I've looked after people for a career for most of my life, rather than focus on 'status' and acquistion.
Get a dog.
I’ve had dogs, and fine friends they are too, but not as good as kids though often better behaved.
I’ve promised myself a dog when I retire. Had Weimaraners, Labs and mongrels In the past. An “Eddie”, wire-haired JR is the plan.
"I’ve known a few people who chose not to have kids and most of them have been very “self-focussed” and not in a good way"#60I don’t think I said it was a bad thing
Then they are welcome round here, I'm rubbish at it.And in my experience they are always bloody experts on child rearing.
"I’ve known a few people who chose not to have kids and most of them have been very “self-focussed” and not in a good way"#60