Bub, this thread illustrates prescisely why I now get grown ups involved -- and learned to stay quiet about the outcome and ignore online kiddies with graphs, RTA mics and attitude instead of experience and knowledge and go to professionals with RTA mics and experience (and yes some of them have attitude too). The former may work on hifi and hobbyists but what you have (and what I am trying to achieve in my life) goes way way way beyond a hobby. A pro saves me having to deal with misinfo... and I can get on with drawing squiggles on lined paper and eating crayons... As the good lord himself gave me the skills to do.
Now be sure I am not accusing anyone here of misinfo, but sifting it and reliability checking is harder work than asking an expert. Great if you have the time, or the perversity, but if you have other things to be doing, it's counterproductive.
I make fewer dead ends this way as well.
I got ATC, my professor and my installer in on the 4-channel +sub +room install and they all disagree with much of the anecdotal data from PFM -- or rather while the points raised (some are "just so wrong they're not even right") the professionals explained a succession of points that erode PFMs "things we hold to be self evident" so much so that I see a repeating pattern there and here that PFM usually concerns itself with peripheral considerations that are tiny in the context of "what really matters".
Not seeing the Wood for the trees, as it were
What I learned with subs and here is: one has reached the limit of an internet forum's ability to reliably inform. If in doubt, (and rest assured the internet forums all create doubt) then wheel a pro in. There are always Internet Experts and much of the advice is going to be well-intentioned, kind, sagely and wise -- and free! But it's hard to verify and unreliable, and that's not really useful to anyone in the long run.