The reason to have more power is to keep everything clean at higher levels (not just constant levels but dynamic).
Tenson, I agree with what you say here, but I'm not sure how asking about user's amplifier power is much help to you as a speaker designer.
What I'd think you need to know from the user (and it's admittedly hard information to get since most people can't measure it) is:
A. what is your typical listening level?, and;
B. at what distance do you listen?
You also want to know crest factor of the music, but this is reasonably constant (I would say 20 dB minimum; acoustic instruments show up to about a 23 dB crest factor).
As Martin said early in this thread, exponential increases in amplifier power produce only relatively small increases in volume. I would add to that that small increases in distance from the speakers can produce exponential decreases in volume (inverse square law).
So small changes in either A or B will quickly result in large changes in required amplifier power. Enough so that the range of amplifier power that people are going to report is not very significant, in comparison.
Speaker efficiency is the big variable you have control over; if you stay away from inefficient speaker designs, then that will most likely let you reach your objective, as a designer.