It would appear that Dean's wife is spoilt for choice, which is somewhat heart lifting all these decades after vinyl records were supposed to have gone extinct.
Something to consider here is that, with fixed loading models and an A-T MM, one should try to keep input capacitance at no more than 100pF, not so much for Carbon, in particular, which is rather forgiving, but just in case the wife ends up wearing the tip down to a nubbin and you collectively decide to install an alloy cantilevered A-T, such as VM95E or summat., instead of simply replacing the existing stylus like for like.
The suggested NAD PP3, for example, is fixed at 200pF, putting the total at over 300pF with tonearm wiring. Again, not a deal breaker with Carbon, but can begin to sound somewhat OTT with some gear, rooms, ears, etc. with such as VM95. A slightly lean sounding amp/or bright sounding 'speakers in a bare floors room, for example.
Some may have noticed me having suggested Mr. Pig's NAD PP3 that is in the classifieds to another member on here just the other day, however, that deck included an Ortofon OMB 5 (recommended 200 - 500pF), with the NAD bringing the total capacitive load pretty close to right square in the middle of that range.