I fail to see what is "absolutist" about saying that I found one phono stage is better than another when I compared them in my system. People do it all the time on hi-fi forums. And honestly I don't mind whether you believe me or not. The only real recommendation I've made in this thread is to try the base Whest PS 30, as it's my opinion that they offer the best vfm.
My system is only mid-tier, middle of the road. In another thread here, we have a £2,000,000 system, and I have recently learned that my Naim gear is worthless, as are my retipped cartridges. I have little doubt that Whest are developing a new top-of-the-range phono stage. Things move forward all the time.
On a side-issue raised above, yes I prefer music via my system to live music, which is usually compromised by crappy PAs and acoustics, I find.