Fremer can't tell you anything useful about this; you have to listen for yourself. No amount of slightly dodgy theory seems to fully explain the effect. But every 12 inch arm I have heard (somewhere around a dozen) has had a similar character...a smoother, sweeter, sound than the 9 inch version. I'd never go back to the shorter arms.
There is however, another way of looking at this; for a given amount of money, would you get a better result by buying a normal 9 inch deck, given that more money can go into it.
That is a complicated question , especially as modern big decks are quite rare. So you have less choice. A good deck with a good unipivot is probably the nearest you will get to the sweeter, more relaxed, sound of a 12 inch arm.