Ok, this thread... bored now.
Seen sub forums set up elsewhere' "blow off steam" rooms and so on and I find crap behaviour expands to fill the available space, plus it becomes a bear pit, a kook magnet and reflects badly on the forum. @asshole in /bearpit is still @asshole in /audio and we carry that baggage from room to room. [sharpens knife for Atomic Pussy threads in /music. I despise it and i will always sneer at people for brazenly admitting to liking catchy tunes by pneumatic waxed brazzers in body stockings and Lycra rather than some emaciated, dss-approved balding tuneless Teuton wielding a laptop like a high-concept audio machete, is it]
Better self moderation is needed, like wheeling in the army, an acknowledgement that not only the perp cannot control themselves but that we cannot contain the perp. Moderation ought to be seen as a failure on all parties on both sides and reflect badly on us all. We need to grow thicker skins; daft, oddball or ill thought through ideas need challenging (actually bloody good ideas also) and less of the victim scenario on both sides. It's ok to go "Jesus Christ, how much?" for a [thing with a backstory] and expect to not be called a "consumer saviour" or subj/obj/whatever-it-is-ist in the same way a guy using a £25 quid DAC whacked up the arse of a £60 consumer product with a bit of fruit on it can still be considered an audiophile. Its not anti audiophile either. Lets get real, yes top end quality is attainable for that kind of spend nowadays, yes MP3s and streaming is that good these days. The world has moved on since the low tech dogmatism of the Linn/Naim dominated 80s. If you can't agree, if you cannot mve on - fine, but audiophile is not what you use, it's who/what you are.
Less of the snobbery on both sides and if you must be one, FFS do it with panache. The world looks at us like stand up comedian misfits with oversized ears, so let's play to the gallery.
Finally, this is the kicker, holding grudges hurts you more than the person you are holding a grudge against. I just hope you all can still accept me even after Metrosexually chilling Reds, extracting coffee wrong and buying an X1. Ice on malt is just simply messed up however, I cannot accept anyone that does that.
Okay maybe I can, a bit.
Srsly.
tl;dr version - The answer is ponies.