Cheese
Bitter lover
All right SPT, but it's you who started it by mentioning your parents. My point in general is that our parent's lives were/are different from ours, often much harder (they had WWII and lots of other things we were spared from), they have merit even when they say bull time and again, and we are not entitled to tell them how to think. And at 80+ it's too late anyway, they have other worries.Plus, much of it is nobody else’s business.
If you manage to argue a lot and still keep an good relationship, all good. If not, then it's just too bad. End of, for me.