The issue with the FET voltage rating is the startup transient - the output voltage will still be low while the gate circuit charges up, and so the FET briefly sees pretty much the full voltage.
As far as I know, there are very few 100V rated JFETs, and those that I know of have low transconductance, and so are not a good fit in this application.
I suspect your best bet will be to use a bipolar darlington, which is the arrangement that Teddy used before I suggested the Fetlington circuit to him.
Choosing suitable transistors should not be a big issue; I would go for devices rated at 80V or more.