'Bud', yes that's another one.
A while ago I went into a pub of which I was the licencee 30 years ago, and a young barman whom I'd never set eyes upon before greeted my with 'Hi Bud, what can I get you?' I recounted the woeful tale to a friend the following day. The next time I went into the pub, the customers all turned to me as one and said, 'Hi Bud...'.
For some reason they missed out 'and what can we get you?'. Bastards.
I had someone trying to "bud" me. He was an arsehole with whom I'd dealt before. His company was supplying meat to ours, the quality was abysmal. After several complaints and promises to resolve it, we again received a delivery of junk. I sent a snotty email to their technical manager, usual stuff about repeated broken promises, signal failure to effectively manage quality, cannot tolerate, blah blah. The TM passed it to the MD who rang me up and had a go. After a full and frank exchange of views he started getting personal, gave me some abuse, swore at me and hung up. Very professional. Fast forward a month or so, he wasn't getting invoices paid, so he rang up and got me. No, I don't know why the M.D. is chasing a couple of invoices either.
"Hiya bud, it's XXX from XXX, yeah, I'm ringing up about these invoices ... can't get through to your director..."
"Oh yes, I remember you. We spoke before."
"Yeah bud, thing is that these invoices are past due, I'm chasing them up."
" Yes, as I say we've spoken before. I do remember that conversation "
(Got you now you bastard, you are getting nothing from me until I hear an apology!)
"Look bud (again!), thing is I just want to get these invoices cleared off buddy. ...blah blah"
"I'm sure that you do. The thing is, I'm technical, I don't pay invoices, you need to speak to our director..."
"WxxKER!" (Clunk)
Wxxker yourself. Now who's laughing? Pay your own invoices.
I subsequently came across him again at another client company, he was a new. supplier. I warned purchasing what to expect, my views were echoed by another technical person who had had the misfortune to deal with him previously. Purchasing went ahead anyway. Good luck, you'll need it. Bud.