Ive had the dubious honour bestowed upon me, not until late summer but Id like to begin preparations now. To be perfectly honest Im dreading it. Ive always struggled with addressing large groups, my natural self scarpers and Im left twitching, unable to speak clearly or think lucidly. Obviously there is a bigger picture to deal with here, namely me, but for now I just need to get through this thing. Ive come to accept its going to happen. They wont split up (in time to save me anyway), nor will any other convenient intervention come to the rescue
I should say at this point that Ive done it before for another friend, many years ago. On that occasion I had the good fortune to share the duties with another friend who was happy to deliver the speech. I just had to introduce him. Even that was painful and I managed to say er about a dozen times. I really thought that would be it and thought Id remained sufficiently distant from all others to avoid ever getting asked again, but here we are once more.
I came to know the friend through my partner about fourteen years ago, a period of relative calm. In any case I didnt witness his growing pains and lack that sort of material. Hes a wonderful guy and was concerned when he saw my dread. I explained my problem but said of course Id do my best. He and his partner are not grand in any way and just want everyone to have a nice time (there will be about 100 coming) they certainly dont expect, and nor would they welcome, anything crass or crude nor some sort of slick stand up routine, but I know there is a level of expectation everyone brings to these events and so I want to live up to that.
Im also a bit uncertain about the form the speech takes, who one mentions, thanks, compliments etc.
Anyway you get the idea. Anyone with an experience theyd care to share or tips and instructions Id really appreciate it.
Roman
I should say at this point that Ive done it before for another friend, many years ago. On that occasion I had the good fortune to share the duties with another friend who was happy to deliver the speech. I just had to introduce him. Even that was painful and I managed to say er about a dozen times. I really thought that would be it and thought Id remained sufficiently distant from all others to avoid ever getting asked again, but here we are once more.
I came to know the friend through my partner about fourteen years ago, a period of relative calm. In any case I didnt witness his growing pains and lack that sort of material. Hes a wonderful guy and was concerned when he saw my dread. I explained my problem but said of course Id do my best. He and his partner are not grand in any way and just want everyone to have a nice time (there will be about 100 coming) they certainly dont expect, and nor would they welcome, anything crass or crude nor some sort of slick stand up routine, but I know there is a level of expectation everyone brings to these events and so I want to live up to that.
Im also a bit uncertain about the form the speech takes, who one mentions, thanks, compliments etc.
Anyway you get the idea. Anyone with an experience theyd care to share or tips and instructions Id really appreciate it.
Roman