#1667; #1689
Thanks for the kind words. I’ve also received a couple of PMs about my decision to drop off pfm, which I very much appreciated. Thanks guys. At this point, I haven’t decided whether this is permanent, or just a fire break™ but events on this thread and elsewhere here did lead me to decide to spend time on other things instead. To be frank, I miss this place, and most of the people who post here, but sometimes there’s an intolerance of different viewpoints that I’m not comfortable with. And sometimes, people aren't above a fairly blatant 'misinterpretation' of what you post, and I'm absolutely not prepared to just put up with that. I’m not setting myself up as somehow above all that (though I do try, quite hard, to be fair and appropriately respectful in challenging other posts) but in some ways, if and when I fail to live up to that, a little bit of me feels diminished by it. That happened in a post (which I very quickly deleted) in response to goading by tiggers. It was inappropriate on the public forum and I’m grateful for the opportunity he then gave me to say it to him more directly.
For now at least, I haven’t changed my mind. I have one person on ignore, and that makes the threads they post on difficult enough to follow and I’m loath to create a longer ignore list for that reason. I could ignore this thread, but it’s been a massive source of information during this crisis, so that’d be self-defeating. I could self-censor so as not to attract unwanted or undeserved attention, but I may as well just lurk if that’s the way forward. So I don’t know. Haven’t decided. But for now, I’m keeping on keeping off and I guess at some point I’ll either stop missing it, or decide I miss it too much to deny myself the opportunity to impose myself on others.
Let’s just agree for now that we all hope 2022 will be a better year than recent ones. So long, and thanks for all the (pink) fish.
Steve