Thanks to all for the suggestions, really.
Mr Pig, I think I understand that you are being helpful, only you did sort of a straight leg entry.. But I suppose you're mostly right, so. Truth is, I probably do not really like HiFi - having dealt with real music for the whole of my pro life - but I do love audio gear, and that makes it complicated.
Snell, Tannoy, Harbeth, ProAc D2s: I'll try to demo something, the ProAcs being the only ones available for a home demo from my dealer. I wish I had a Tannoy retailer close to where I live.
Now, Mr Pig is about as friendly as a car accident but he's right I fear.. So thanks for his straightforwardness. I can demo Harbeths and ProAcs, the others will need some searching and driving.
Thanks for the suggestions, I now can gather some thought.
M.