Marchbanks
Hat and Beard member
I may have heard that, or something similar somewhere else. Anyhow, kindness is a thing now. A chap at some university or other is researching it, both the giving and receiving thereof and our reactions to it.
Paradoxically you gotta be cruel to be kind; converted me for sure.
I bet after many years of expensive research they conclude that in the right measure, it’s a very good sign.