Yes, I appreciate what I have because I worked hard to earn to pay for it. I had a friend who did photography but never a steady job because an inheritance paid for everything. For me it would be harder to appreciate and value things if I was just able to walk in to any store, point at things and take them home without careful consideration. I also enjoy the journey, finding things I want to fix or restore and hold on to. The effort is part of the reward, and maybe for me the ultimate sound takes a back seat.
This kind of ‘frugality’ also let me retire very early. I have income to pay for the essentials, and can choose to work (however I want) to pay for perks (travel, bikes, fancy meals, house projects).
A lot of my former coworkers still think you just work until a certain age, and buy whatever you can with the money you are earning at each stage. Bigger house, more cars, boat, audio system, 2nd or 3rd home. But I’ve managed to win some of them over by example. You don’t need to keep finding ways to spend money. Maybe some of what you buy helps you deal with work you don’t enjoy (that was me), but you can get off the treadmill earlier than you might think. Or you can have all the things. Your choice.
But people shouldn’t assume that if someone doesn’t like something expensive, they are envious or sour grapes. It seems defensive to jump to that conclusion.