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Stuff - why on earth do we have so much stuff?

windhoek

The Phoolosopher
I just watched this short video about 'the Muhammad Ali of Marbles, Mr Len Smith' that was first broadcast on the BBC way back in 1973. It's unquestionably Old Britain TV but what I found interesting was that Smith's living room seemed most reasonably well, if not correctly apportioned with stuff - both in terms of the amount of stuff and, from what I can tell, the likely cost of it. Indeed, you could even say there wasn't much in the way of excess on both fronts.

I recognise the modesty of it as my late-gran used to live in a flat that was similarly apportioned. In the day-to-day living room, she had a TV, a radio, a display unit for ornaments and such like, a few photos and things on the wall plus stuff on the fireplace (plus seating, of course, and small folding dining table). Despite the modesty of it, it was very homely. She also had a larger room that became the hub for larger family gatherings at Christmas and whatnot but again, it was modestly apportioned with stuff.

I've totally succumbed to the mindset of owning stuff I don't actually need - I don't actually want, in some cases - and at a financial cost that would cause my gran shriek aloud! What happened: is it simply a sign of the times that my generation had in general much more disposable income, that I've been corrupted through the power and allure of advertising, or that I've lost touch with the value of hard-earned money?

Whatever it is, stuff is - and has been - a defining feature of my life thus far! Have you got too much stuff?
 
I just watched this short video about 'the Muhammad Ali of Marbles, Mr Len Smith' that was first broadcast on the BBC way back in 1973. It's unquestionably Old Britain TV but what I found interesting was that Smith's living room seemed most reasonably well, if not correctly apportioned with stuff - both in terms of the amount of stuff and, from what I can tell, the likely cost of it. Indeed, you could even say there wasn't much in the way of excess on both fronts.

I recognise the modesty of it as my late-gran used to live in a flat that was similarly apportioned. In the day-to-day living room, she had a TV, a radio, a display unit for ornaments and such like, a few photos and things on the wall plus stuff on the fireplace (plus seating, of course, and small folding dining table). Despite the modesty of it, it was very homely. She also had a larger room that became the hub for larger family gatherings at Christmas and whatnot but again, it was modestly apportioned with stuff.

I've totally succumbed to the mindset of owning stuff I don't actually need - I don't actually want, in some cases - and at a financial cost that would cause my gran shriek aloud! What happened: is it simply a sign of the times that my generation had in general much more disposable income, that I've been corrupted through the power and allure of advertising, or that I've lost touch with the value of hard-earned money?

Whatever it is, stuff is - and has been - a defining feature of my life thus far! Have you got too much stuff?

Short answer, YES!

I’m terrible, I keep lots of ‘stuff’ just in case, only when it’s getting ridiculous do I have a clear out.

Recent examples being, new bathroom mirror, I kept the old one, it’s in the garage...

Bedroom recently updated, I’ve kept the old curtain pole, again, just in case it comes in handy, it’s in the garage too...
 
No, a de-clutterer by nature. This has led on occasions to re-buying something I got rid of in haste (recently an SLR camera that I sold thinking I would be OK with a compact) but I'd rather make that sort of error occasionally than possess loads of things that don't get used or serve a purpose.
 
I’ve bought mint or as new but always broken hi-fi for 30 years, so really very cheap, then I fix it.
I spend so many hours on it that I just can’t resell it.
The few times I sold the equipment I bitterly regretted it. So much so that years later the regrets are still vivid.
So I keep everything. I do have a very large house and a kindly supportive other half.
 
The answer is to move house. It really concentrates the mind and makes you face those "do I really need to keep this?" decisions.

To a larger house? (For more ‘stuff’ storage capability :)).

Though, we’ve been there, it’s akin to building an extra lane on the motorway :D.
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I am by nature, a hoarder. I hate throwing anything away, including packaging ‘in case it might come in handy’. I get upset if I’m asked to throw out something that I then have to re-buy later because it’s needed. Moving house last year involved the disposal of vast amounts of stuff and when charity shops were shut due to Covid, a lot of stuff went to the dump including old hifi and an Edwardian gramophone.
Basically if you don’t do it in life, some other poor sod will have to do it when you’re gone. Things that are sentimentally important to you are often valueless to most other people.
 
I'm in the middle of a big fret over just this issue. We have boxes of fancy kitchen gadgets, electrical equipment and and all sorts of random stuff which seemed like a good idea at the time, but which proved in the end to be a complete waste of money and time. An then there's the embarrassment of cupboards half full clothes and shoes hardly ever worn, some still with the price tags on them. I think there is some sort of natural law at work here, along the lines of "the quantity of stuff expands over time to fill the space available", or something.
 
I guess the question I didn't consider is whether having 'too' much stuff is a bad thing per se. Can it simply be what it is? Or is it a bad thing or a problem, rather?

Fwiw, my gran's flat definitely wasn't minimalist in terms of stuff but it wasn't indulgent either. As for me, the main culprits of excess stuff are electronics/pleasure stuff:

5 x guitars (2 acoustic, 2 electric and 1 bass guitar)
3 x guitar amps (2 electric and 1 bass amp)
Lots of guitar accessories
3 x bikes
Lots of bike accessories
2 x mac minis
1 Macbook Air
1 x Windows PC
1 x Windows laptop
Lots of computer accessories
6 x pairs of speakers
2 x blu ray players
1 x DVD player
2 x AV Receivers
1 x TT
3 x amplifiers
8 x remote controls
2 x big headphones
2 x earphones
7 x watches
Lots of cables in use
Lots and lots of cables not in use
Lots and lots of LPs
Lots and lots of CDs
Lots of user manuals
Lots of empty boxes that the stuff came in

If I lived by my gran's standards I'd probably only have half the stuff I currently own if not a lot less. If I lived by my gran's standards, I'd probably only have:
1 or 2 guitars
1 or 2 guitar amps
1 x bike
1 x simple all-in-one stereo in the corner of my living room, possibly a Naim Mu-so (plus a small micro stereo in bedroom at a push)
1 x pair of earphones for on the go listening
1 x pair of headphones
1 x small TV
1 x blu ray player
2 x remote controls
1 x soundbar at a push
1 x laptop
20 x LPs
18 x CDs
2 x DVDs
1 x blu ray disc (Casino Royale that came with the blu ray player)
2 x watches

no empty boxes
no sound absorption panels/bass traps!
no 'back-up' accessories for anything
2 x user manuals for stuff that's no longer in the house

Contentment? No less if not more so.
 
We've got too much stuff definitely. I'm one of those people that finds it difficult to sort out; I always get to the point where i can't make up my mind about something, so I put it back and eventually give up. Obviously, i have loads of records CDs and tapes, but also loads of books and my wife has loads of DVDs that she is trying to sort out at the moment, so yes, guilt as charged!
 
As @windhoek asks, maybe the question is really why we end up with so much stuff. Twice a year my wife and I have a month where we don't buy any non-essentials - no books, no records, no clothes, no stuff.

It's surprisingly hard! I'm always slightly embarrassed to be reminded how much I enjoy a bit of retail therapy - especially Ebay/Amazon/etc - it's good to go 'cold turkey' now and then and break the habit.
 
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I’ve a lot of stuff I have five 60x40 boxes full of cables. ive four laptops 2 of which are just in case, I have five drills. Why do I have five drills?
 
I have about the right amount of stuff for me.

The Wife has nothing she wants, except diamonds, and they don’t take up much space.

If we have too much of something, we give it away to the kids or charity.
 


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