Joe Hutch
Mate of the bloke
I think my forum name is excellent but you have to know your Buffy the Vampire Slayer to "get it":
https://www.douxreviews.com/2002/01/buffy-crush.html
It's the dismissive name Harmony, the airhead vampire, gives to Drusilla, the love of Spike's life for 200 years.
I did not know that, because I've only ever seen half of one episode of Buffy.
But reading your posts I still see you as a bloke with wild hair and several days' worth of beard, even though I know that your avatar picture isn't you.