It seems pretty clear that we (all) listen differently, and have different priorities. There is a new-ish thread on here about £5k speakers. I recommended Focal 1028Bes, endorsed by a couple of other posters. The OP responded and said he'd heard them, and they weren't for him. I know Tony is not a fan, either (but has high regard for LS3/5as, which I detest with a passion). I remain of the view that I haven't heard better at the price. The recommendations the OP seemed to warm to, and others too, were often speakers I've heard, and have absolutely no interest in.
So, clearly, people often have different priorities. I expect this relates to the peculiarities of our own hearing, and what our brain finds most important in the signal it receives. Some people on here are willing to try things out, and almost always report no difference for them. Where my experience is different, I don't conclude that either of us is wrong, merely that the other person's experience is valid for him, as mine is for me, and that we are probably perceiving different things.
How do you measure and test for that in one, definitive test?